During what he calls a kind of ‘awakening’ back in 2012 when he was 35 years old, James looked around his office and truly questioned what everyone else seemed to have that he didn’t.
They could speak loudly and confidently to one another without a care in the world, or pick up the phone without hesitation and even stand in front of a group of people in a meeting without going red or shaking or losing their train of thought. What was this super power they all had that he didn’t?
When James finally plucked up the courage to go to the GP for advice, he would hear the term ‘social anxiety’ for the first time - whereas before, his teachers and family had always used the term shy or even laid back, even though none of these ever actually felt right. Would someone laid back really feel their words stick in their throat or a sense of dread before going to see a friend standing in a group?
And although the doctor that day did not have all the answers, this didn’t stop James from going on a healing journey of many years; a journey of self discovery and of growth, and created a life far beyond he could have ever have imagined.
Yes, James healed from daily, chronic social anxiety and intrusive thoughts; but it was the life beyond social anxiety that was the most eye opening and most beautiful discovery in this process.
James now makes it his MISSION in life to put this information in the hands of EVERYONE who is in his old shoes, anyone who suffers daily from social anxiety, and give them this information condensed into a simple framework using the system he personally used to rediscover their true selves and find a life of growth, confidence and freedom on the other side.
When he’s not working on his business, practising yoga or meditating, James could be found walking his two dogs with his partner Alice, in his garage gym listening to Drum & Bass where he’s still trying to hit that 100kg squat (one day!) or he’ll be watching something either Star Wars or Marvel related with his teenage kids.
Above all, James believes that he didn’t just overcome social anxiety for himself - but also for those around him. To be of service and of use to society, both locally and globally. To be an emotionally strong and confident role model to his children and to be the most present and grounded partner he can possibly be for his wife.